Sunday, March 21, 2010

Good, Bad and the Ugly (cry)

The last few weeks have been completely craptastic. 100%. Now it is O-V-E-R. We've had good and bad.

Bad: We've moved.
Good: We are staying in the same area and will now have a three car garage.
Bad: Our house closed before the new house was ready.
Good: The Dana's are letting us bunk with them. Seriously, true friendship. Seriously.
Good: the Dana's have some weird hot water thing-a-ma-jiggy that gives you instant hot water. It also puts hot water in the toilets. Your bum gets a steam spa treatment every time you go. TMI? Perhaps.
Bad: Mortgage companies. Bad bad bad.
Good: The new house has a ton of shade trees and no scorpions. My number one fear living here in Arizona. My old house didn't have them and I couldn't go to a new house that had them.
Bad: We've had a lot of unanswered questions that have weighed very heavily on our minds. Where to live, What State to live in, How will this affect our kids, Our jobs.
Good: Walking into a house you are contemplating living in and immediately knowing that you have come home. I had criteria for my next house, and this house doesn't cover them, but it just feels so right.
Bad: I did the ugly cry. I yelled and screamed at people on the phone. I hung up on someone. (who then called Nate and tattle told on me that I hung up on her) I thought about punching someone in the face. (Same person I hung up on)(I really did, I know you think I am mild-mannered, but I think something shifted in my brain after being crapped on so many times.)
Good: Nate didn't let me punch someone in the face.
Bad: We had to take Sammy to the ER. Thought perhaps she had appendicitis.
Bad: Most expensive constipation episode ever.
Good: She is feeling better.
Good: Amazing friends, family and church family that have checked in on us, asked us what they could do to help.
Good/Bad: we move in to our new house Easter weekend, so the Dana's get us for another two weeks. Bad, our storage unit isn't open on Easter.
Good: when we get settled in and recover from our craptastic month, (this post doesn't even cover the crappiness of it all) I am making Nate take us to San Diego.

9 comments:

Erin said...

Jen it doesn't sound like you have been having much fun. I am so glad that you are able to stay in the neighborhood though. Let me know if you need anything. Miss you!

Tori and Steve said...

Oh wow! Sounds crazy! Glad it's over for you too! I am so excited for you and your new house. I think it's awesome that you felt like you were home the minute you walked in the house. I love signs like that!
You will have to post some photos!

Crazymamaof6 said...

I'm sorry! that sucks! a lot.
hang in there.

yay for awesome friends. and good to know on the instant hot. i think i won't be getting one of those now. imagine that midsummer. steamy.LOL.
Oh and this is so happening to me come may. sucks.

hugs! and cute blog change.

Kim Bringhurst said...

So true that when it rains it pours! I hope now the sun has started peeking through and better days lie ahead! I think that sucumbing to the ugly cry and fits of telephone rage are good signs... Let it out, let it out, let it out. Love and hugs from us!

B and D said...

Good - You will still be in the ward! I am glad about that. Let me know if I can help. We will be closer neighbors now!!!

The Riggs Family said...

Where is your home, your still going to be in the ward? Good News!! Were Happy!!!!!!! Yeah!!!

Piper said...

Oh Jen! This will soon be only a memory! Although I am sad you won't be back in UT, I'm glad you found the right fit there. Love you!

I was raised in a barn said...

holy cow!! i need to be better friend!anything we can do?? i love reading your blog by the way :) you make me laugh.

Cara @ Gardenview Cottage said...

Yep - you have had quite the challenges. The good thing is you are still smiling and your marriage is intact. Plus we will be closer so the Dana's can't hog you guys all-the-stinkin-time!